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In this episode, the hosts and guest host Mick discuss their experiences with adoption. Mick, although not technically adopted, grew up with a stepfamily and considers himself adopted in a sense. The hosts share their stories of finding out they were adopted and their limited knowledge of their biological parents. They also discuss the adoption process and the difference between open and closed adoptions. In this conversation, Mick, Gene, and Emily discuss the impact of adoption on their lives, including themes of abandonment, trauma, and identity. They explore the emotional challenges and unique experiences that come with being adopted, sharing personal stories and reflections. The conversation highlights the importance of acknowledging and discussing adoption as a significant aspect of one’s identity. Mick also raises the question of whether there is a correlation between adoption and addiction, which sparks further discussion. Overall, the conversation provides insight into the complexities and nuances of adoption and its lasting effects.
Show Notes:
🤝Being adopted can result in a fear of abandonment and a desire for connection, as well as a sense of uniqueness and pride in one’s identity.
🤝Therapists who address adoption as an issue with their patients can help uncover and address the trauma and challenges associated with adoption.
🤝There may be a correlation between adoption and addiction, as individuals may turn to substances as a coping mechanism for unresolved emotional issues.
🤝Adoption can take different forms, including traditional adoption and being raised by a stepfamily.
🤝Finding out about being adopted can vary from person to person, with some always knowing and others discovering it later in life.
🤝Adoption papers often provide limited information about biological parents, including physical descriptions and some medical history.
🤝Closed adoptions involve no contact between the adoptee and biological parents, while open adoptions allow for some level of contact and communication.